Articles : Let The Ship Sails

      The way to solve any relationship problems which mostly stem from poor communication is by discussing it with your partner. In many relationships, with varied reasons and different conditions, we can discover conflicts between. Rather than to voice it out, they choose to keep it inside, remain silent and not try to seek for solutions. Problematic feelings that go unspoken tend to percolate and boil over. My best friend and I rarely argue or suffer single fights or debate about something; we are generally on the same wavelength. Unfortunately, one day, my personal opinion of her crush led us to ignore each other wordlessly. However, I recognized if we continue activating this silent mode, it would only create a wall between us, obstacles were not going to be overcome and, in fact, it may be becoming worse. One should bring the courage back to invite the partner to a discussion and stop expecting them shall start it first like I did. I keep bearing in mind how this friendship really meaningful to me, so I should get my best friend to hear what I have to say and ask her about what she thought. It’s important not to put the blame on or seems to attack the person when trying to consider the problem; rather show that you care to deal with this. In any case, you may be also the one that makes mistakes. Finally, by knowing what each party feels, the problem will get clearer and close to the clarification. Discussion about a problem with your relationship will lead to the deal, to the introspection, to an ending and explanation.

Someday in 2015, Somewhere in South Korea

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Sella Lametta ♡